Virtually every guy has had this experience a few times in their lives. Have you ever met a woman who just wanted to toy with you? She flirts with you and then turn cold all of a sudden without warning.
It is very important that you learn how to tell the signs that she is only playing with you and that she is not really that interested in you. This can save you a lot of time and effort and perhaps most importantly, from embarrassment. Getting rejected is one thing, but being led on and then getting rejected after all that is unforgivable. Read on to discover the two mind games that women play - and how you can avoid getting played...
Mind Game # 1. "Decreased Value". Many women, after talking to you for a couple of minutes, will start being disrespectful to you in some way. This might be somewhat discreet (or even unnoticeable) at first. However, you can easily tell that she is playing with you when she starts feeling very comfortable with you - and start questioning you in a particularly inappropriate way.
If she continues to misbehave in this respect, then it is time that you back off. This will give her some time to reflect on what she's been saying and eventually she will probably come back to you and want to remedy the situation.
Mind Game # 2. "Comparisons and Jealousy". If she starts comparing you to other men that she knows or other men present at the time, then you must call her bluff. She is trying to play the jealousy game on you!
She tries to make you feel jealous because she ultimately wants to test you to see if you are going to take the bait. You should deal with this by being indifferent to her and not coming across as even slightly concerned.
Now that you know that she is playing mind games with you, then what you should do is to play her back! One useful technique to do this is called fractionation - where you bring her through an emotional roller coaster, and in the process get her to be emotionally 'involved' with you. As a result, she will be obedient and obey your wishes for a change.